Three of the most common nursing pillows Canadian parents compare are My Brest Friend, Boppy and Momcozy. They take different approaches, and the best nursing pillow depends on how and where you feed, whether you are recovering from a C-section, and how much support you want for long sessions. Here is how they compare on design, firmness, support, washability and safe use.

Short on time? For most people, the pick is the My Brest Friend Deluxe ($88.99 CAD), a firm, flat pillow that clips on. If back support matters most, choose the Super Deluxe (from $98.99 CAD). Both are in stock.

The short answer on firm vs soft: a firm, flat pillow holds baby at a steady height through a long feed. A soft, squishy pillow is comfortable for lounging, but baby can sink as it compresses. Many people use soft pillows for bottle feeding, resting or propping. This is a preference, not a right or wrong choice.

Quick comparison

My Brest Friend Boppy Momcozy
Shape Firm, flat, wraparound Soft C-shape Contoured / adjustable
Stays in place Yes (waist strap) No Some models (strap)
Firmness Firm, holds height Soft Varies (some memory foam)
Best for Long, frequent, supported feeds Casual use and multipurpose Custom height preference
Multipurpose (propping, etc.) Feeding-focused Very multipurpose Mostly feeding
Comfortable after a C-section Many parents find the strap-on design comfortable, since baby is lifted off your lap Less ideal, rests on lap Varies by model
Washable Removable, machine-washable slipcover Machine-washable cover Cover washable on most models
Twins Flat surface suits tandem feeding (twin guide) Not designed for tandem Not designed for tandem

Firm vs soft nursing pillow

This is the real difference between the three. My Brest Friend is firm. Boppy is soft. Momcozy sits in between and varies by model.

My Brest Friend (firm) Boppy (soft) Momcozy (varies)
Feel Firm and flat core Soft, squishy C-shape Adjustable-fill or memory foam, firmness varies
Baby height over a long feed Stays level at breast height Baby can sink or roll toward you as it compresses You can tune the height on adjustable models
Back support Backrest on the Deluxe (6 in), enhanced lumbar support on the Super Deluxe Open C-shape that rests on your lap Varies by model
Clip or strap Clips on with Velcro and a silent-release buckle on the Deluxe No strap Some models have a strap
Washable cover Removable, machine-washable slipcover. Fits approx. 28" to 44" waist Machine-washable cover Washable on most models

Choose firm if: you want baby at the same height feed after feed and a pillow that stays put. The Deluxe (from $88.99 CAD) is the everyday firm pick. For extra back support on long feeds, the Super Deluxe (from $98.99 CAD) adds a thicker front cushion and enhanced lumbar support.

Choose soft if: you want one comfortable pillow for bottle feeding, resting or propping, and you are happy with a looser feed.

The core design difference

My Brest Friend uses a firm, flat cushion with a wraparound strap that clips around your waist. Baby stays at a consistent latch height and the pillow does not shift. Some models add patented feeding risers and extra back support for long, frequent feeds.

Boppy is a soft, C-shaped pillow you rest baby in. It is versatile, and many parents also use it for propping and tummy time. Because it is soft and open at the front, baby can sink or roll toward you, and it does not strap on.

Momcozy offers adjustable-fill and memory-foam nursing pillows, often with a strap. The adjustable models let you tune the height, which some parents like. Support and firmness vary by model.

For a head-to-head on the two best-known brands, see My Brest Friend vs Boppy.

Which suits you?

Choose My Brest Friend if your priority is consistent latch height, back support and a pillow that stays put through long feeds. Browse the full range of My Brest Friend nursing pillows, or compare models in our size guide.

Choose Boppy if you want one soft pillow for lots of uses and you are comfortable with a less structured feed.

Choose Momcozy if dialling in the exact height matters most and you prefer a softer, contoured feel.

Special cases

A note on safe use

Whichever you choose, nursing pillows are for feeding support only. Use them when baby is awake and supervised, never for sleep. Read more in our nursing pillow safety guide.

Common questions

Is a firm or soft nursing pillow better for breastfeeding?
Many parents prefer firm, because it holds baby at a steady height through a long feed. Soft pillows are comfortable for lounging and bottle feeding, and it comes down to preference.

Can a soft pillow work for newborns?
Yes, many people use one with a newborn. Baby can sink as the pillow compresses, so check their position often. If latch or positioning feels hard, a lactation consultant can help.

Is My Brest Friend better than Boppy?
For dedicated breastfeeding support, many parents and lactation consultants favour My Brest Friend, as it stays in place and keeps baby level. Boppy is softer and more multipurpose, which suits casual use.

What's the best nursing pillow after a C-section?
Many parents like a strap-on pillow because it lifts baby off the lap. See our C-section pillow guide, and ask your care provider about your recovery.

Are nursing pillows safe for sleep?
No. Nursing pillows are for supervised, awake feeding only, never for sleep.

Where to buy My Brest Friend in Canada

Adorling is an authorized Canadian retailer for My Brest Friend. Every pillow is genuine and warrantied, ships free and tracked from Vancouver, and has 30-day returns on unopened items. Shop every model here, or read why buying authorized matters.

Still not sure?

If you want steady support for long feeds, start with the Deluxe. Adorling is an authorized Canadian retailer, every product is genuine and warrantied, and shipping is free across Canada.